You might think you're nicer than you really are, according to new research.
And you're not only in fooling yourself. The study revealed that 98 per cent of people is considered by 50 percent if the population. Peoplewho thought they were well - even if they weren't - were generally richer and happier, research shown. The study was conducted by psychologists from the University of Goldsmiths in London.It found people who were 'nice' thought were generally more relaxed, happy and successful - but not necessarily more enjoyable. ' there was a very interesting result in relation to the qualification of persons that cute theyare, and how scored in valid measures of individual differences,' Jonathan Freeman, who led the study, said the Times. 'For example, morethan half of the participants who were classified as the second-highest level of Nice scored below the average sample of affability, by what people think are best of what can really be.' Those who were more likely that are considered 'majos' made things as they gave directionsto strangers, kept the door open for a stranger and gave his seat to aperson pregnant in a train or greater. Two of every three people are considered nice if they bought 'charity' Christmas cards because theyknew that it was a good cause and donated time and money to charitable causes in more general terms. However - it is that being 'Nice' is often skin deep. Dealing with rude people can do 73 percent of people stop being nice. Losing an important document as a wallet or keys also launches the 59 percent of people outside the Racecourse.
Fewer than one in three people have helped someone with heavy bags and only 28 per cent of people someone has helped you cross thestreet. The study looked at how 'nice' meant in terms of emotional intelligence (EI). This commonly describes how capable is a person's reading goals of others and emotions, awareness of their own emotions and their ability to support the goals and the interactions of otherpeople. People who have higher emotional intelligence are also better able to cope with stressful situations. For example previous research demonstrated that people who have higher scores of EI had a quieter cardiovascular response when their hands were immersed in ice water. The current research, which was conducted for airlines of the monarch, including a questionnaire to measure, filled by 100 people. Some of the participants were to respond to particularly stressful stimuli and special software to analyze facial expressions could measure the emotional response of volunteers. The camera showed that whenpresented with a video of five minutes of traffic, fighting, temper tantrums from children and participants of uncomfortable situations fear,anger and disgust. This was supported by the questionnaire - 47 percent of people lets be nice if a child is crying or an alarm will be shutdown, while discussions and disagreements left from 45 per cent to be pleasant.
BEST BEHAVIOR 'NICE'
1. give directions to strangers (83%)
2 holding doors open for foreigners (80%)
3 assign the seats in public transport (80%)
4 buy charity Christmas cards (65%)
5 donate time or money to a charitable cause (63%)
THAT CUTE ARE YOU?
What these ten good things do often or whenever can?
Answer yes/no and keep track of your score.
1. instruct the strangers
2 slow down the elevator and keep the door of an unknown
3 give your seat to an old man or a pregnant woman in a bus or a train
4 buy Christmas cards 'charity' because you know that this is a goodcause
5 donate money to charity
6. the volunteer to take care of a neighbor or friend pets or children
6 help someone carry heavy bags
7. make a neighbor you don't know well given their dishes and tools
8 help someone cross a street
9 donate blood
10 helping a known move house or do DIY
If you answered 'Yes' to six or more than ten questions you are better than the majority of the people.
The study of researcher averaged 'Yes' just in five answers to these questions.
The survey showed that there was a strong correlation between the qualifications of the participants of the 'beautiful' which are, and the relaxed, happy, healthy and successful are.
More nice people also report being more fulfilled in their careers.
There was also a correlation between the 'beautiful' people and havea greater number of close friends.
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